HEY! HEY YOU! YES YOU! Guess what?
To me, you’re beautiful.
(Source: heartmeanseverythiiing, via napskinksandall)
Loving yourself
Why is it so hard for people to love themselves? Why is it that we allow what others say to us hurt us so badly that we think of ourselves as not good enough? Ever ask yourself what makes you not good enough? It’s always something. My hairs too short, I don’t have a Body, I’m too thick, I’m fat, I’m too skinny. Why do we as people crave such approval from others and worry about the crap They tell us? I know as someone that’s living on this Earth I am guilty of this issue. Wanting people to believe that I’m gorgeous and good enough. Wanting for society to believe that I am up with these famous actresses and models. Sometimes I look in the mirror and think I’m not good enough or not pretty enough. It has always been my biggest issue. Me being an enemy to myself. Has anyone ever noticed why it is easy to believe the bad things people say than the good things? Why is that… why do I believe that. I mean if it is true that everyone is beautiful then why is it that if we don’t like someone the first thing we say is they are ugly. I’m not saying I don’t! Its just. When you sit down and think about things you won’t believe the things we say that not only tear down others but ourselves. And, yes we are only human. But, I know after thinking about this… I want to do better. I want to look at myself and not see and believe the bad things but the good. To not compare myself to what society believes to be beautiful or sexy. And, to try not to use that to hurt others that hurt me. I just want to love me and be happy with me.
I took my Bantu Knots out and I’m not sure if mine were very successful. But, after working with my hair the second day of taking them out I really Loved my hair!
